First of all, I’d like to say “Accompany child is a good way to the family education”.
My son’ name is Justin, he was 7 years old and just became a new student in Grade one of Primary school, and So far he likes all teachers and new classmates as he told. He feels very pleasure and happiness in school all the time. Every day after came home, he talked to us a lot of funny things in school what related to him. In the class sometimes he was doing well, sometimes he being criticized due to bad performance. Whatever, we had a serial conversation every night, the ability of good communication is a must for everybody. Keeping stay with him, we could see him grown up at every single day.
Otherwise, every day we were keeping stay with him to do homework, reminded him an upright posture to reading and writing. By more practice, he could to write and read well on his own. Also every day we took a little time together to play basketball, football, badminton or any sport what he likes, by insistently sports he has being more confident and health, As a parent we always like to saw that. Trying more stay with him and looking at him to become better and stronger.
For a young child, he was always keeping burst with curiosity for a new thing or new stuff, sometimes took him a book or an introduction is not really enough. But took him to travel that he would know well and good memories for some knowledge can’t be learned from books. Or play together with him for some puzzle game, for sure it will be better than he was alone to played the game on cell phone. Being more practice and also can be strengthen the ability of his independent thinking. Keeping stay with him, child would be more intelligent.
In fact, we didn’t realize how to accompany him at few years ago. Sometimes He wanted to read but I was playing with my cell phone, he wanted to sport but I was stayed outside for friend’ party. Thus he has no interested for something new and no enough courage to make new friends, he always like to say “No, I can’t, or I don’t want”, at the moment I really blaming myself and I realized the growth of child would be influenced by parents, so I can’t guide him wrong and can’t let him down, that I should be paying more time to accompany him, to seeing his growth and improves. Finally something changed, He has learned how to ride bike and how to play basketball/football/badminton when he was in kindergarten, and also he could read a new book on his own and likes to make new friends. Keeping stay with him, I could see a smiling face at every moment.
However, for every child they being have different way of family education by their parents, but for a Child to set up a good habit of self-study is a desire for all of parents. no matter father or mother just having an adult to accompany him, for him a Remind/Correction/Guidance, so that he would be more brave and self- confident.
